single

this is a response to a good friend's recent post, cla julian about her fate in love.

So, what's wrong with being single? maybe there is, maybe there's none.

Being single means lower living costs, more free time and no strings attached. While having a relationship implies the exact opposite albeit it provides ETHEREAL HAPPINESS. i hope i'm right.

I think, falling in love in it's purest sense all boils down to the concept of it being a matter of choice. If you're itchin' to hook up with someone then go ahead. it's never a crime. But, if you're so willing, then you can wait... and wait longer... and wait maybe forever until the dusts of time eat you...

My personal experience manifests the latter choice. a big W-A-I-T-I-N-G can actually spell out my current status. No, I'm not searching. Neither does this post is intended to attract those who'd think i'm liking them. I remember my friend, mae de guzman, telling me to drop the conservative vibe and be more liberated. i just don't feel it. hehe. I know, love, rare as it is - it MAY come. MAY!!! hehe

So, what's my point? My two cents, it's ok being single so long as you accept it. If not, then hit the green light and go! Problem is, with whom? Falling in love is more of mind control. Think. Think. Think. It's never maverick and mayhem.

(Why do i have this weird feeling negating my claim above... ahahaha. no! i'm not in love! not yet! not with that person. i cant. i wont.)